01 / 12 · The problem
Weeks of texting. Still no idea who he really is.
Long chats with someone you have never seen. Photos you can’t check. A story that changes.
“hey beautiful”“send me your WhatsApp”“my camera is broken”“I’m working overseas”“can you help me with…”“trust me”“I love you” · day 3+214 more
02 / 12 · Step 1 · Watch
Watch my short video first.
Hear my voice and see my face before you decide anything. No signup, no app.
My video · this page
Short
→
Weeks of texting first
None
03 / 12 · Step 2 · Who I am
No mystery. Here’s who you’d be talking to.
Plain facts, nothing dressed up.
NameJosh Tucker
Based inChicago
WorkFounder, SI Consulting
ServiceEx-military
Looking forOne person, something serious
04 / 12 · Step 3 · Pick a time
A few times each evening. Shown in your time.
My days are full, so I keep a small number of calls each night, booked at least a day ahead.
8:45 amyour time · Manila
9:15 amyour time · Manila
11:45 amyour time · Manila
1:30 pmyour time · Manila
05 / 12 · Step 4 · About you
I want to know you, not a type.
You saw me first, so I ask about you. A few short questions about your goals, how you love and what matters to you. Answer what you’re comfortable with.
A few questions when you book
What are you looking for?pick one
When you disagree, you usually…pick one
What matters most in a partner?pick three
What does a good relationship look like?in your words
06 / 12 · Step 5 · How we meet
WhatsApp or your browser. Your choice.
Pick WhatsApp and I video call you, or open a link in your browser. Nothing new to install.
WhatsApp videoLink in your browser
→
One call15 minutes, face to face
07 / 12 · Step 6 · I read it
I read every request myself.
No assistant, no agency, no script. You get an email when I confirm.
08:12YouRequest sent · answers attachedyou
19:40JoshRead your answersJosh
19:41JoshCall confirmed · email sentJosh
—Sample · illustration
08 / 12 · Step 7 · The call
Fifteen minutes. Live. Same face as the video.
If the man on the call isn’t the man in the video, hang up. You owe no one an explanation.
Live video · 15:00
Josh Tucker · Chicago
Keep talkingEnd the call
09 / 12 · What I won’t do
No pressure. No games. No money talk.
These are the signs of a scam. You will never see them from me.
Never from me
Asking for money, gifts or ticketsnever
Avoiding live videonever
Rushing you or saying “I love you” on day threenever
10 / 12 · After the call
Then we go at your pace.
If we both want to keep talking, we keep talking. If I’m in your city, we meet somewhere public, when you’re comfortable.
The call15 minutes
Keep talkingif we both want to
Meetsomewhere public
Your pacealways
11 / 12 · Where I’m going
I’m coming to Asia.
The Philippines, Japan and China. Dates are being set.
PhilippinesJapanChinadates being set
12 / 12 · Your move
See me before you trust me.
Fifteen minutes, face to face. Then you decide.